For the guys that wear thongs daily, do you become desensitized to thongs or how are you not turned on all day? I don't think I could wear them all day as i'd be too horny but do you get used to them?
Lol Gbanger, I would get hard if I saw you in a thong. Well that's just me. I am straight, but I have bi tendencies. But like Gbanger, I prefer seeing chicks in thongs. When I am behind a chick, I check to see if she's a thonger. But when a guy is in front of me, I just ignore him as I highly doubt that he's a thonger. I wear thongs purely for comfort, and I wear them on the beach so that girls can take note of me. It would mean the world to me if a girl came up to me and told me that I have a nice butt.SHORT ANSWER: I wear comfortable men's thongs.
LONG ANSWER: You asked if we get "desensitized to thongs." No, absolutely not. I've been obsessed with thongs for nearly 2 decades, and I've tried to get over it. Fact is though, there is nothing that will ever desensitize us to this fetish. Thongs will always be extremely arousing to us. So the idea that thongs will somehow become less arousing, and then you can wear them, is the wrong way to think about it in my opinion.
For me, even though I am obsessed with thongs, that extreme arousal is for whatever reason isolated to women and women's thongs. I see a woman wearing a thong and it's an instant boner. I see a dude wearing a thong, and nothing. If I opened Mrs. Proud's underwear drawer and saw her hundreds of thongs, my head would explode. Yet if I open kiyoo's drawer and see a bunch of his men's thong, I will have no reaction.
This is why I wear men's thongs. They have no arousal effect on me. I agree with you, if I was wearing a sexy ladies thong, I'd totally be turned on. It's what hot women wear, it's tiny, its colorful, it's lacy, etc. Plus it wouldn't fit my anatomy properly so I'll always be noticing it. Men's thongs on the other hand are just not sexy to me. I mean, they are designed with a special pouch up front to accommodate your cock and balls. What's arousing about that? And even though they are thongs, they are not women's underwear. No women would ever be wearing the same men's thong as me, so there is no female association with them. As such, when you completely remove the female factor, the thongs are suddenly no longer arousing and really become just another pair of underwear.
So why do I wear thongs if it has nothing to do with my fetish? One word: comfort. Despite how they look, wearing a thong does not feel like having an all day wedgie. In fact, I don't even notice the strap up my butt. Fullback underwear rides up and gives me constant wedgies, but with thongs it's never an issue. Remember, the primary purpose of thongs is not to arouse, it's to be worn as underwear beneath your pants all day. They are designed to be comfortable. So as long as you are wearing the right size it won't feel weird between your cheeks and you'll probably forget you're even wearing a thong by the time you get your belt buckled. And this also continues the domino effect: if the thong is comfortable, you won't feel it. If you don't feel it, you won't think about it. If you don't think about it, you won't be aroused by it.
So don't be afraid to try them out! Buy some boring men's thongs and just wear them as underwear for a few days to see how it is for yourself. Even if you don't become a daily thong wearer, I think any guy who loves thongs enough to be a member of this community should at least have a few men's thongs of his own in his underwear drawer.