My friends don’t know that I wear thongs, but there’s a girl at my church who I might hint this to. She’s around my age and pretty easy-going. She flirts with me sometimes, but I get the feeling she doesn’t take me seriously. I can't shake the feeling that I've been friend-zoned.
Earlier today, I could’ve mentioned my underwear preference, but I chose not to. We were at a bar, and we saw a guy wearing a miniskirt and fishnet stockings. She asked me how I’d feel if my girlfriend wore something too flashy or revealing. I told her it would depend on the situation—like, a revealing bikini at the beach is fine, but wearing something too provocative in public would be a no-go. I then asked her about her fashion preferences, and she mentioned she doesn’t like to dress too flashy in public. Since the topic was fashion, I could’ve casually brought up underwear, but with other friends around, I decided to leave it there.
I don't think I can get lucky with her, so I might as well just reveal my secret to her. I might do an 'accidental' thong slip or wear something revealing when I am with her. I am just a bit cautious with this girl because I know her from church and I still fancy her.