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Do wives post pregnancy give up wearing thongs?

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Lovingit

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My wife and I recently had a baby. It took about 6-8 weeks post pregnancy for her to revert back to wearing thongs, but she’s gone back to wearing full back cotton underwear in the last week. I hadn’t said anything until tonight in hopes that it was a momentary thing and she’d go back to wearing thongs, but she hasn’t. When she got into bed, I saw she was in full back underwear again. After some chat, I eventually spooned her and said “why am I being deprived of butt cheek?” with my hand on her ass so she knew what I was talking about. She said “these are comfy, the other ones (meaning thongs) dig in”. She’s worn thongs to bed for close to decade and had only not this last week.

For context, my wife has worn thongs every day under jeans, leggings and tight dresses (and everything really) for as long as I can remember. I’m hoping this is a momentary thing, but am concerned it won’t be as in the last week she’s been wearing full back underwear under jeans and leggings.

Has anyone had experience similar? Has anyone’s wives gone through experiences that mirror this, and do they eventually go back to wearing thongs full time? I realise this is a niche, vain concern, but figure where else could I share my fear that I’ve lost a thong wearing wife. It legitimately puts me in a bad mood knowing she’s not wearing a thong (not that I show that to her, but she knows I love and much prefer her in a thong). Appreciate any help or shared experiences.
 
Same exact situation happened to me. My wife started wearing them again shortly after pregnancy but now she won’t even touch her thongs and even threw most of them out. It’s a rare occasion for her to wear one and it’s such a huge bummer. It’s not a communication problem as we’ve talked about it and she knows how much I love it, but she went from wearing the tiniest thongs to full black cotton underwear that’s so dreadfully boring. Taken a bit of a hit on our sex life but she’s comfortable and it is what it is. I noticed it really stuck with her when she would watch all these “mom Tik toks” where they all circle jerk about how much better granny panties are after they’ve had kids.
 
Maybe it’s something they do after having kids? My sister in law has never worn thongs however…she wore them once or twice apparently and said they felt like a permanent wedgie..,so ditched them. She only wears full backs (borderline granny panties) and boyshorts. She’s also had 4 kids…so maybe they just want more comfort instead of feeling sexy after having kids?? I don’t know?
 
The shape of my wife's butt changed after the first baby to where she felt thongs were less comfortable. Something about her hips getting wider made them put more pressure on her butt crack that bothered her. Before kids she would wear them maybe 1/3 of the time and now it is pretty much only for date nights and special events.
You may just have to get used to them only being a once in a while thing.
Something that has worked for me: any time she is wearing a thong be sure to really complement her. Like not over the top where it is weird but just mention things like your ass looks really good tonight, or I really like how that dress fits you. This helps her to link up in her mind that thongs make her look good and make her want to wear them more. Its all about playing the long game my friend.
 
When I was feeding our baby last night, my wife went up to have a shower. She came down after in pyjama pants and a jumper and sat down next to us. The pj pants are low waisted so will normally show what she’s wearing underneath pretty consistently. When she got up to do something in the kitchen, I looked over to see a VS leopard print thong showing above her pj pants. Was great seeing that perfect sight, and spooning her last night while she had her thonged ass pushing back into me. She’ll wear that thong all day today too, so I’m happy and have blood flowing even writing this! Will keep the updates coming if there’s a desire for them.

Would also love anyone else to chime in with their experiences with their wife’s underwear choices after birth.
 
My wife hated the pantries she had to wear after pregnancy. Now she buys slightly more conservative things (thicker as she is as well) rather than stringy. We keep it spicy taking turns buying them for her and her posting in them.
 
Women’s bodies change after pregnancy. Post partum is a real thing.

give her time. If she genuinely loved thongs before there is a big chance she’ll go back once she’s feeling better.

my wife went back to wearing thongs post pregnancy to avoid VPL which was what she did before kids. It took her a while but now mainly Wears them under leggings, white pants and workout pants only. She Works out everyday when I’m at work so don’t get to see the thongs on her but see them in the hamper!
 
The thing with thongs is they are a love hate relationship with most women but mainly used to avoid vpl!! So 20 years ago they were the only option but now there's so may other alternatives, also as a women gets older and all her friends don't bother with them anymore it's harder for her to motivate herself to want to wear them daily, there seem as sad and to beggy' to wear all the time like a girl in her 20s does some carry on most don't though
I say this with true regret, if you have a big bottomed wife then she will realise all other pantie styles give her wedgies anyway so she will stick to her thongs
 
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Wife is about 7 months along. Shes a bbw and rocked 80%gstring and 20% thong our whole marriage. Sadly down to 0 now and hoping she goes back. Sad story, the night she got pregnant she went shopping earlier that day and my heart was racing all day in anticipation. After we get home she comes out in a silky floraly robd....tells me "i went shopping for a really nasty thong but got this instead, do you like it?" Thought it was a joke but sadly it wasnt
 
WallIguy said:
Wife is about 7 months along. Shes a bbw and rocked 80%gstring and 20% thong our whole marriage. Sadly down to 0 now and hoping she goes back. Sad story, the night she got pregnant she went shopping earlier that day and my heart was racing all day in anticipation. After we get home she comes out in a silky floraly robd....tells me "i went shopping for a really nasty thong but got this instead, do you like it?" Thought it was a joke but sadly it wasnt
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Sounds like my wife. Give it time hopefully she’ll be back. My tip for you is buy her some Comfortable everyday thongs for an occasion. Done it several times and it works.
 
WallIguy said:
Wife is about 7 months along. Shes a bbw and rocked 80%gstring and 20% thong our whole marriage. Sadly down to 0 now and hoping she goes back. Sad story, the night she got pregnant she went shopping earlier that day and my heart was racing all day in anticipation. After we get home she comes out in a silky floraly robd....tells me "i went shopping for a really nasty thong but got this instead, do you like it?" Thought it was a joke but sadly it wasnt
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Yes as said Man, give it time, being pregnant can't be easy a lot of it's to do with discharge and stuff! If shes a bbw this could work in your favour as and bigger assed girl I've ever dated swear to me thongs are genuinely comforer as normal undies get sucked up their ass, a few months after giving birth she will go back to her old thonging ways
 
Just had a chat with my wife on the couch. She’s been wearing nothing but granny panties to bed and during the day, and has done for weeks. It’s infuriating, but what can I do? I look at her hopeful as she gets into bed and am filled with despair night after night as I see her wearing full coverage underwear.

She said to me, “we’re cuddling tonight”.
I replied, “yeah we are! Don’t wear underwear to bed”.
“Mm I have to wear undies!”
Me: “okay then, no Bonds” (Bonds = the brand of full coverage she wears. They’re literally black cotton. No frills. No lace. No waistband. They finish just under her belly button). Me saying this is suggesting she wears a g-string.
She says, “no promises” and laughs. She then goes on to say her g-strings don’t fit her, but also that she doesn’t feel comfortable wearing a g-string in front of our baby if she’s having to get up during the night to feed/rock her. This is a new discovery I’ve encountered. I’ve never heard of this before - she doesn’t want our baby to see her in a g-string? I replied saying they’re just underwear and that I thought that was odd. She replied defensively, saying I can’t say that’s odd because I have nothing to compare it to, that I’m comfortable in the same underwear in front of the baby.

No idea where to go from here. At this point I’m feeling like it’ll be a miracle if she ever wears nice underwear again. Even if I bought her bigger/more comfortable g-strings now I doubt she’d wear them anyway because she feels weird our baby seeing her in them for some reason. Would love any advice on how to counter to this if anyone’s experienced something similar. Super bummed right now
 
Lovingit said:
Just had a chat with my wife on the couch. She’s been wearing nothing but granny panties to bed and during the day, and has done for weeks. It’s infuriating, but what can I do? I look at her hopeful as she gets into bed and am filled with despair night after night as I see her wearing full coverage underwear.

She said to me, “we’re cuddling tonight”.
I replied, “yeah we are! Don’t wear underwear to bed”.
“Mm I have to wear undies!”
Me: “okay then, no Bonds” (Bonds = the brand of full coverage she wears. They’re literally black cotton. No frills. No lace. No waistband. They finish just under her belly button). Me saying this is suggesting she wears a g-string.
She says, “no promises” and laughs. She then goes on to say her g-strings don’t fit her, but also that she doesn’t feel comfortable wearing a g-string in front of our baby if she’s having to get up during the night to feed/rock her. This is a new discovery I’ve encountered. I’ve never heard of this before - she doesn’t want our baby to see her in a g-string? I replied saying they’re just underwear and that I thought that was odd. She replied defensively, saying I can’t say that’s odd because I have nothing to compare it to, that I’m comfortable in the same underwear in front of the baby.

No idea where to go from here. At this point I’m feeling like it’ll be a miracle if she ever wears nice underwear again. Even if I bought her bigger/more comfortable g-strings now I doubt she’d wear them anyway because she feels weird our baby seeing her in them for some reason. Would love any advice on how to counter to this if anyone’s experienced something similar. Super bummed right now
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I could kinda understand not wanting to be half naked in front of the baby. She could also just throw a pair of pants on if she’s that uncomfortable. Unless your talking the baby is in the room in a crib. Then my advice is wait til the baby is out. As far as body changes weight comes off gradually but if she’s just got a new body. Buy the new thongs for an date night as go from there.
 
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