Would you still date her if you knew that she didn’t wear thongs?

[Gbanger]

The biggest thong I recommend is a woman size up, sometimes even size up 2 sizes. Everyone is build different. But a thong should not be uncomfortable. Women with bigger asses, who have a properly sized thong tend to find them more comfortable since they don’t have to worry about it bunching up in between their cheeks. A thong is designed to rest between them not be devoured like a cloth plug.

Spot on advice. Did you really just piece that all together from VS & Arie review sites, or have you worn thong underwear before yourself? Because it took me days and days (possibly weeks) of wearing thong underwear myself before I acquired this knowledge. hahaha

But I agree, finding thongs "uncomfortable" is the easiest hurdle to overcome if trying to get a woman to make the switch. Just gotta spend some money until you find the right thongs that work for her. If she thinks thongs are trashy or are for sluts though, that I feel is way harder to get over.

 

[Grayfoxy]

Spot on advice. Did you really just piece that all together from VS & Arie review sites, or have you worn thong underwear before yourself? Because it took me days and days (possibly weeks) of wearing thong underwear myself before I acquired this knowledge. hahaha

But I agree, finding thongs "uncomfortable" is the easiest hurdle to overcome if trying to get a woman to make the switch. Just gotta spend some money until you find the right thongs that work for her. If she thinks thongs are trashy or are for sluts though, that I feel is way harder to get over.

Yeah, I just read reviews. I could tell my wife wasn’t having a difficult time and I didn’t want this to become a point of contention in our relationship ship. There were also several Reddit posts were people brought it up. I spread that shit like gospel. If a woman has a booty, most of the time she will be more comfortable with less fabric.

 

[Alex3004]

Yeah, I just read reviews. I could tell my wife wasn’t having a difficult time and I didn’t want this to become a point of contention in our relationship ship. There were also several Reddit posts were people brought it up. I spread that shit like gospel. If a woman has a booty, most of the time she will be more comfortable with less fabric.

Yeah love the fact that the bigger ass the girl has - the less choice she has but wearing thongs in terms of comfort, size choice and so on

 

[Pantyman]

But I agree, finding thongs "uncomfortable" is the easiest hurdle to overcome if trying to get a woman to make the switch. Just gotta spend some money until you find the right thongs that work for her. If she thinks thongs are trashy or are for sluts though, that I feel is way harder to get over.

One of my sluttiest ex's had a drawer full of boring single color bikini panties. I was in college and was so happy to visit her house and when she went for a shower I went right to her drawer. The drawer was disappointing, but she made up for it!!

So I used to think cute or really sexually active meant cuter panties, but I don't think thats the case now. So girls look at underwear and literally don't care. If they are that way, then the panties I'm wearing are 100% gonna be cuter haha

 

[Gbanger]

One of my sluttiest ex's had a drawer full of boring single color bikini panties. I was in college and was so happy to visit her house and when she went for a shower I went right to her drawer. The drawer was disappointing, but she made up for it!!

So I used to think cute or really sexually active meant cuter panties, but I don't think thats the case now. So girls look at underwear and literally don't care. If they are that way, then the panties I'm wearing are 100% gonna be cuter haha

Yeah, I didn't really mean it in the way that girls that wear thongs are "sluttier." A woman can be a freak in any style of underwear.

I meant it more how some women have mental hangups about thong underwear that have nothing to do with their comfort. For instance, some women might think thongs are unhygienic, or they are just for strippers, or that thongs are for sexy time in the bedroom instead of for all day underwear, or that they look unflattering in one, etc.

So my point is that there are many reasons why a woman does not wear thong underwear. If the reason she doesn't wear them is because they make her feel like she has a constant wedgie, then that is just a matter of finding the right thong for her. If she doesn't wear thongs though because she literally doesn't like thongs for some reason, then it's harder to convince her to make the switch.

 

[kiyoothong]

I have been seeing this girl from church lately. We are not officially dating but I would say we have gotten quite close. She's a nerdy girl, but she does have her own unique fashion. Before I date her, I want to know whether she is a thong girl or not.

I went shopping with her a few days ago, and I wanted to check out some underwear with her. Unfortunately, the department store we went to was really packed, so we ended up going to Zara.

Since we went shopping together, I think I can talk about clothes and fashion with her. Now I want to bring up underwear, but I am not sure how to do it without sounding like a pervert.

 

[thonglover]

I have been seeing this girl from church lately. We are not officially dating but I would say we have gotten quite close. She's a nerdy girl, but she does have her own unique fashion. Before I date her, I want to know whether she is a thong girl or not.

I went shopping with her a few days ago, and I wanted to check out some underwear with her. Unfortunately, the department store we went to was really packed, so we ended up going to Zara.

Since we went shopping together, I think I can talk about clothes and fashion with her. Now I want to bring up underwear, but I am not sure how to do it without sounding like a pervert.

Is there any chance that you will hook up with her before starting officially dating? I feel like that helps a lot in terms of opening you each up to talking about things that turn you on. Also better to ask her what turns her on first, then you can bring up thongs only after she gives her side plus asks you for your thoughts.

In the meantime, do you have any indication from the times you've seen her? VPLs (or lack thereof)?

I would also say, even if the conversation has to wait until you are officially dating, make it clear to her early on that it is something that you are really into and that turns you on, and if thongs are still a no-go for her, then that's all you need to know about the future of the relationship. But IMO, that's really a conversation for once you start getting serious (hooking up, etc.).